Advice!

We give lots of support and advice to other people but when it comes to our own life, the decision becomes really hard! Can we guide ourselves? Well depends on how much you are willing to forgo! If your friend is out of a job, since you are having a big cushion of being in a job, you happily advise that friend to take it cool and apply for the next posiible job! But when it happens to you, you realize that its first of all a threat to your survival, a social embarassment and a sudden downward path in your career. All these feelings hit you and you change your outlook towards the same friend who also lost the job.